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Three Words Everyone Needs to Stop Saying

Three Words Everyone Needs to Stop Saying

Imagine for a moment that you are going through a hard time and feeling a lot of emotion when someone says to you: Get over it. How does that make you feel? Now imagine any time you share something you care about or are upset by, and someone says: get over it. That...
Why I Don’t Like to Call Myself a Wife

Why I Don’t Like to Call Myself a Wife

I don’t like referring to myself as a wife. Even though I am one (#remarried). I’ve considered adding “wife” to my social media bio, but I can’t bring myself to do it. After leaving an abusive marriage, the thought of ever calling myself a wife was like: hell no. The...
Dangers of Hero vs. Villain Thinking

Dangers of Hero vs. Villain Thinking

HERO VS. VILLAIN THINKING Those who hold an abusive belief system have a certain way of looking at the world. When I say abusive, I am talking about anyone who does what they do to have power and control over someone else. And this behaviour isn’t always obvious. In...
on church and the aftermath #metoo

on church and the aftermath #metoo

Possibly the most hurtful part of my sexual assault was the church that failed me in the aftermath. A place that had been my home, people who had professed friendship, kinship, sisterhood, and family left me as so much collateral damage. I get it, I do. I know I...