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And not just any bookshelf, my book is now available at the Indigo-Chapters location in Langley, BC! It can be found in the Local Author and the Abuse section. Currently they have a display table of local author books and it is on there too. I’m very excited about this! Many times I walked into that exact store and dreamed about one day seeing my book there. Now that dream is a reality. More than seeing my book on the shelf though, I am thrilled with the possibility that more people might read it. (Because of that I must resist the urge to check online to see if I have sold any copies…) Abuse awareness is really important to me. I want to continue to get the word out there about what it looks like. My memoir is easy to read and reads like a novel. It’s written in chronological…

I’ll let you in on a secret⁠… until I threw my own book launch party (with the help of my talented event-planning sister), I had never been to a book launch before. It was likely the first one for many of the people there too. It was a lot of fun! I’m so grateful for everyone who came. It meant a lot to me. I heard positive things from people who attended, which was great. I wish I could have talked more to everyone who came. It’s crazy to be in a room where I am the only one who knows every person. People started to arrive just before 6:30pm. At 7pm, my sister introduced me. She mentioned the importance of stories and I reiterated the same sentiment in my speech. Stories are important. They change us. Shape us. Move us. Inspire us. Grow us. A story can have a…

“The time to relax is when you don’t have time for it.” – Sydney J. Harris I’m trying not to panic while fending off overwhelm and anxiety by the number of things I need to do in order to launch a book. I feel like I don’t have time or energy or space for anything else, which is probably exactly when I need to take an intentional break. I’m learning everything about launching a book for the first time. June is getting closer and closer! And I feel like I’m doing nothing and everything at the same time. One minute I think: I got this. The next? Utter despair. In some ways, the writing of the book feels easy compared to trying to launch it. Fear is telling me what is the point of any of this, don’t even try. And I want to give up and just pretend I…

Writing a memoir is not for the faint of heart. Have you ever been so angry that you can’t think straight, and you just start swearing at your computer screen? I have. When I first started writing a memoir, I had something to prove. I wanted anyone and everyone to know just how badly I had been treated in my first marriage. I was very angry. And rightly so, but what I have learned is that angry writing isn’t always helpful writing. As a reader, when you read something, you don’t want the words to be yelling at you. A while back I heard someone say: you will know when you are ready to share your story with the world when you don’t have something to prove. It’s the idea that you are in a good place with something when you no longer have to prove it.   There have been…