HERO VS. VILLAIN THINKING Those who hold an abusive belief system have a certain way of looking at the world. When I say abusive, I am talking about anyone who does what they do to have power and control over someone else. And this behaviour isn’t always obvious. In fact, the belief system they hold can be very subtle. If you don’t share their view of the world, it can be incredibly confusing to try to understand them. Let’s talk about something that abusive people do. They see the world in terms of heroes and villains. In each situation, someone is the hero and some is the villain. No matter what. If you approach someone and they think you are trying to be a hero, that is when they will bite your head off or will attack you for looking at life from your perspective. They will assume the worst.…